What kind of church is your church?
Does your church refuse to talk about anything that they consider too controversial to talk about? Why do you think they do that? Church should be the one place you can go to get a better understanding of the Word, at the very least. Right? Maybe talking about women pastors is offensive to some. But it is a serious issue. We need to talk about these things. I remember growing up in a church that refused to talk about the book of Revelation. Was it just too complicated for them? What is your church like?